Q2. If a man is allowed to have more than one wife, then why does Islam prohibit a woman from having more than one husband?

POLYANDRY

Question:

If a man is allowed to have more than one wife, then why does Islam prohibit a woman from having more than one husband?

Answer:

A lot of people, including some Muslims, question the logic of allowing Muslim men to have more than one spouse while denying the same ‘right’ to women.

Let me first state emphatically, that the foundation of an Islamic society is justice and equity. Allah has created men and women as equal, but with different capabilities and different responsibilities. Men and women are different, physiologically and psychologically. Their roles and responsibilities are different. Men and women are equal in Islam, but not identical.

Surah Nisa’ Chapter 4 verses 22 to 24 gives the list of women with who you can not marry and it is further mentions in Surah Nisa’ Chapter 4 verse 24 "Also (prohibited are) women already married"

The following points enumerate the reasons why polyandry is prohibited in Islam:

1. If a man has more than one wife, the parents of the children born of such marriages can easily be identified. The father as well as the mother can easily be identified. In case of a woman marrying more than one husband, only the mother of the children born of such marriages will be identified and not the father. Islam gives tremendous importance to the identification of both parents, mother and father. Psychologists tell us that children who do not know their parents, especially their father undergo severe mental trauma and disturbances. Often they have an unhappy childhood. It is for this reason that the children of prostitutes do not have a healthy childhood. If a child born of such wedlock is admitted in school, and when the mother is asked the name of the father, she would have to give two or more names! I am aware that recent advances in science have made it possible for both the mother and father to be identified with the help of genetic testing. Thus this point which was applicable for the past may not be applicable for the present.

2. Man is more polygamous by nature as compared to a woman.

3. Biologically, it is easier for a man to perform his duties as a husband despite having several wives. A woman, in a similar position, having several husbands, will not find it possible to perform her duties as a wife. A woman undergoes several psychological and behavioral changes due to different phases of the menstrual cycle.

4. A woman who has more than one husband will have several sexual partners at the same time and has a high chance of acquiring venereal or sexually transmitted diseases which can also be transmitted back to her husband even if all of them have no extra-marital sex. This is not the case in a man having more than one wife, and none of them having extra-marital sex.

The above reasons are those that one can easily identify. There are probably many more reasons why Allah, in His Infinite Wisdom, has prohibited polyandry.

Why is a man allowed to have more than one wife in Islam? i.e. why is polygamy allowed in Islam?

POLYGAMY

Question:

Why is a man allowed to have more than one wife in Islam? i.e. why is polygamy allowed in Islam?

Answer:

Definition of Polygamy

1. Polygamy means a system of marriage whereby one person has more than one spouse. Polygamy can be of two types. One is polygyny where a man marries more than one woman, and the other is polyandry, where a woman marries more than one man. In Islam, limited polygyny is permitted; whereas polyandry is completely prohibited.

Now coming to the original question, why is a man allowed to have more than one wife?

2. The Qur’an is the only religious scripture in the world that says,"marry only one".

The Qur’an is the only religious book, on the face of this earth, that contains the phrase ‘marry only one’. There is no other religious book that instructs men to have only one wife. In none of the other religious scriptures, whether it be the Vedas, the Ramayan, theMahabharat, the Geeta, the Talmud or the Bible does one find a restriction on the number of wives. According to these scriptures one can marry as many as one wishes. It was only later, that the Hindu priests and the Christian Church restricted the number of wives to one.

Many Hindu religious personalities, according to their scriptures, had multiple wives. KingDashrat, the father of Rama, had more than one wife. Krishna had several wives.

In earlier times, Christian men were permitted as many wives as they wished, since the Bible puts no restriction on the number of wives. It was only a few centuries ago that the Church restricted the number of wives to one.

Polygyny is permitted in Judaism. According to Talmudic law, Abraham had three wives, and Solomon had hundreds of wives. The practice of polygyny continued till Rabbi Gershom benYehudah (95% C.E to 1030 C.E) issued an edict against it. The Jewish Sephardic communities living in Muslim countries continued the practice till as late as 1950, until an Act of the Chief Rabbinate of Israel extended the ban on marrying more than one wife.

3. Hindus are more polygynous than Muslims

The report of the ‘Committee of The Status of Woman in Islam’, published in 1975 mentions on page numbers 66 and 67 that the percentage of polygamous marriages between the years 1951 and 1961 was 5.06% among the Hindus and only 4.31% among the Muslims. According to Indian law only Muslim men are permitted to have more than one wife. It is illegal for any non-Muslim in India to have more than one wife. Despite it being illegal, Hindus have more multiple wives as compared to Muslims. Earlier, there was no restriction even on Hindu men with respect to the number of wives allowed. It was only in 1954, when the Hindu Marriage Act was passed that it became illegal for a Hindu to have more than one wife. At present it is the Indian Law that restricts a Hindu man from having more than one wife and not the Hindu scriptures.

Let us now analyse why Islam allows a man to have more than one wife.

4. Qur’an permits limited polygyny

As I mentioned earlier, Qur’an is the only religious book on the face of the earth that says ‘marry only one’. The context of this phrase is the following verse from Surah Nisa of the Glorious Qur’an:

"Marry women of your choice, two, or three, or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one."

[Al-Qur’an 4:3]

Before the Qur’an was revealed, there was no upper limit for polygyny and many men had scores of wives, some even hundreds. Islam put an upper limit of four wives. Islam gives a man permission to marry two, three or four women, only on the condition that he deals justly with them.

In the same chapter i.e. Surah Nisa verse 129 says:

"Ye are never able to be fair and just as between women...."

[Al-Qur’an 4:129]

Therefore polygyny is not a rule but an exception. Many people are under the misconception that it is compulsory for a Muslim man to have more than one wife.

Broadly, Islam has five categories of Do’s and Don’ts:

i. ‘Fard’ i.e. compulsory or obligatory

ii. ‘Mustahab’ i.e. recommended or encouraged

iii. ‘Mubah’ i.e. permissible or allowed

iv. ‘Makruh’ i.e. not recommended or discouraged

v. ‘Haraam’ i.e. prohibited or forbidden

Polygyny falls in the middle category of things that are permissible. It cannot be said that a Muslim who has two, three or four wives is a better Muslim as compared to a Muslim who has only one wife.

5. Average life span of females is more than that of males

By nature males and females are born in approximately the same ratio. A female child has more immunity than a male child. A female child can fight the germs and diseases better than the male child. For this reason, during the pediatric age itself there are more deaths among males as compared to the females.

During wars, there are more men killed as compared to women. More men die due to accidents and diseases than women. The average life span of females is more than that of males, and at any given time one finds more widows in the world than widowers.

6. India has more male population than female due to female foeticide and infanticide

India is one of the few countries, along with the other neighbouring countries, in which the female population is less than the male population. The reason lies in the high rate of female infanticide in India, and the fact that more than one million female foetuses are aborted every year in this country, after they are identified as females. If this evil practice is stopped, thenIndia too will have more females as compared to males.

7. World female population is more than male population

In the USA, women outnumber men by 7.8 million. New York alone has one million more females as compared to the number of males, and of the male population of New York one-third are gays i.e sodomites. The U.S.A as a whole has more than twenty-five million gays. This means that these people do not wish to marry women. Great Britain has four million more females as compared to males. Germany has five million more females as compared to males. Russia has nine million more females than males. God alone knows how many million more females there are in the whole world as compared to males.

8. Restricting each and every man to have only one wife is not practical

Even if every man got married to one woman, there would still be more than thirty million females in U.S.A who would not be able to get husbands (considering that America has twenty five million gays). There would be more than four million females in Great Britain, 5 million females in Germany and nine million females in Russia alone who would not be able to find a husband.

Suppose my sister happens to be one of the unmarried women living in USA, or suppose your sister happens to be one of the unmarried women in USA. The only two options remaining for her are that she either marries a man who already has a wife or becomes public property. There is no other option. All those who are modest will opt for the first.

In Western society, it is common for a man to have mistresses and/or multiple extra-marital affairs, in which case, the woman leads a disgraceful, unprotected life. The same society, however, cannot accept a man having more than one wife, in which women retain theirhonourable, dignified position in society and lead a protected life.

Thus the only two options before a woman who cannot find a husband is to marry a married man or to become public property. Islam prefers giving women the honourable position by permitting the first option and disallowing the second.

There are several other reasons, why Islam has permitted limited polygyny, but it is mainly to protect the modesty of women.

Hijab is not a piece of cloth on your head.

Hijab is not a piece of cloth on your head.

Assalam Alaykum,

I Hope InshahAllah this note will help sisters to understand the true meaning of “HIJAB“.

Just because some of the sisters have their head covered, they think that the requirement of Hijaab is fulfilled. They don’t realize that wearing a Hijaab requires much more than just covering your head.

Actually, if you think about it, Hijaab is the way you talk…..the way you walk….the very way you carry yourself. In fact, Hijaab is an attitude in itself. Its a whole way of life.

Allaah says:

“And say to the believing women to lower their gazes, and to guard their private parts, and not to display their beauty (zeenah) except what is apparent of it, and to extend their headcoverings (khimars) to cover their bosoms (jaybs), and not to display their beauty except to their husbands, or their fathers, or their husband’s fathers, or their sons, or their husband’s sons, or their brothers, or their brothers’ sons, or their sisters’ sons, or their womenfolk, or what their right hands rule (slaves), or the followers from the men who do not feel sexual desire, or the small children to whom the nakedness of women is not apparent, and not to strike their feet (on the ground) so as to make known what they hide of their adornments. And turn in repentance to Allah together, O you believers, in order that you are successful.” (Surat-un-Nur: 31).

some sister says

Well, my head is covered. What more do you want?

If you look carefully at the ayah, it clearly states that the head covers (khumur) should be drawn over the neck slits (juyoob). Khumur is the plural of the Arabic word “khimar” which means a headcover. Juyoob is the plural of the Arabic word “jaiyb” ,which refers to the neck slit (of the dress).

Yet, some sisters just cover their head with something, and think they are fulfilling the rights of Hijaab, although part of their hair or body is showing, or their whole neck and chest area are exposed. Actually, that was the way of the women of Jahilliyah.

Al-Qurtubi said: “Women in those days used to cover their heads with the khimar, throwing its ends upon their backs. This left the neck and the upper part of the chest bare, along with the ears. Then Allah commanded them to cover those parts with the khimar.”

So secure the scarf well around your face, covering your neck/chest area, and keep those half sleeves and capri pants for your Mahrams

Sorry.…tight jeans and short shirt just don’t cut it

You can’t wear tight jeans and a short shirt with a piece of cloth on your head and think this is Hijaab. Nor can you wear anything else that is tight, describing the shape of the body in any way, even if it is long. The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said:

“In later (generations) of my ummah there will be women who will be dressed but naked. On top of their heads (what looks) like camel humps. They will not enter into paradise or (even) get a smell of it.” (Muslim)

If it is see-through, its NOT Hijaab

You CANNOT use chiffon or other see through material to cover your hair and body. Everything should be covered and the color of the skin underneath should not be visible.

The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) once received a thick garment as a gift. He gave it to Osamah b. Zayd, who in turn gave it to his wife. When asked by the Prophet why he did not wear it, Osamah indicated that he gave it to his wife. The Prophet then said to Osamah “ask her to use a “gholalah” under it (the garment) for I fear that it (the garment) may describe the size of her bones.” (Ahmad, Abi-Dawood)

(The word gholalah in Arabic means a thick fabric worn under the dress to prevent it from describing the shape of the body).

The Hijaab shouldn’t attract attention

The dress should not be such that it attracts men’s attention to the woman’s beauty. Allaah clearly states “not to display their beauty (zeenah).” Yet, Subhaan Allaah, some Hijaabi sisters are dressed in such a way that they attract more attention to themselves than they would if they didn’t wear Hijaab!! How could such zeenah be concealed if the dress is designed in a way that it attracts men’s eyes to the woman? It beats the purpose of Hijaab.

Allaah tells us:

“And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance…” [al-Ahzaab:32]

What about make-up and perfume???

Wearing make up is also part of the zeenah that Allaah orders us NOT to display. So if your head and body are appropriately covered yet you are wearing bright red lipstick or dark eyeliner such that people confuse between you and a raccoon….uh sorry, that’s not Hijaab. And keep those nice fragrances for the home, between you and your husband. That’s part of Hijaab too, even if you are going to the Masjid.

The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said:

“Any woman who puts on perfume and passes by people so that they can smell her fragrance, is an adulteress.” (al-Nasaa’i, Tirmidhi: hasan by Albaani)

Tinkling Jewelry and Jingling bracelets

‘Loud’ and tinkling anything, be it jewelry, bracelets, clip-clopping shoes, little bells on clothes, you name it, if it jingles or makes noise, it is against the principles of Hijaab, because it attracts attention to the one wearing it.

That is what is meant when Allaah orders us in the above verse…

“not to strike their feet (on the ground) so as to make known what they hide of their adornments.”

No laughing, joking, or hanging out with non-Mahrams

Some sisters assume that since they are properly covered, its okay for them to sit around and talk, laugh, joke, etc. with the men, but that’s not right, even if he is ‘the Shaikh’. Allaah says:

“. . . then be not soft in speech, lest he in whose heart is a disease should be moved with desire, but speak in an honorable manner.” [al-Ahzaab:32]

So talk to them when there is a specific need, and in a manner that is not necessarily rude, yet it is polite but firm.

Staring at the brothers or ‘checking them out’ is NOT Hijaab

Allaah orders us to “lower your gaze” in the above verse. Why? Because a single ‘look’ can say more than a thousand words. So, even if you are properly covered, keep those eyes down, conduct yourself with ‘Hayaa’, and avoid ‘fitnah’

‘Chatting’ on the internet/phone is not part of Hijaab, either

There is no such thing as “we’re just friends”. Talking to non-Mahrams is wrong even if it is through the internet or telephone. There are too many stories of illegal relationships, fornications, broken homes, extra-marital affairs and runaway brides to even mention. That is why in Islam anything that leads to haraam is also haraam. Allaah says:

“Do not (even) come close to fornication, for it is an indecency, and its way is evil.” (Surah Israa:32)

Be careful, even in the way you walk

Remember, you are not a runway model displaying the latest fashion. Walk with modesty and hayaa and you will be respected. The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said:

“There are two types of the people of Hell that I have not seen yet….women who are clothed yet naked, walking with an enticing gait…..” (Muslim).

Don’t shake hands with non-Mahrams. Its part of Hijaab

It is not permissible to shake hands with a non-Mahram, because the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said:

“For one of you to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle is better for him than to touch a woman who is not permissible for him.” (at-Tabaraani saheeh by al-Albaani).

And no, it is not rude to refuse to shake hands with non-Muslims. Simply politely explain that its part of your religion and they are very understanding.

Stay away from the men’s areas

I see many sisters entering the Masjid from the men’s entrance, or standing idle in the hallways or where there is a chance of unnecessary mixing with the brothers. What for?

Don’t we have a separate entrance for ourselves? Why do you think Allaah ordained the Hijaab in the first place? To avoid fitnah, by reducing temptation and separating the genders.

“The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said to the women on his way out of the mosque when he saw men and women mixing together on their way home: ‘Give way (i.e., walk to the sides) as it is not appropriate for you to walk in the middle the road.’ Thereafter, women would walk so close to the wall that their dresses would get caught on it.” (Abu Dawood)

Hijaab is also to conceal your sister

Although some sisters wear the Hijaab themselves, they forget that they cannot talk about another sister and her beauty in front of their own husbands, brothers, etc. Remember, part of your Hijaab is to cover your sisters ‘awrah’ as well.

The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said:

“No woman should mix with a woman and describe her to her husband so that it is as if he can see her.” (Muslim)

May Allah guide sisters,and protect them from all kind of evils.

Ameen.

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Stop Females to upload Photos on Facebook

[This is not said in Islam,that females not allowed to upload there pics ONLINE,Indeed,Islam Forbids taking pictures,but in todays world,we can't fully stay away from this.for Lots of Official Need we need it...After knowing and watching many things on Internet,I thought that Females should avoid uploading pictures online.so written an Article before,but Now I started this as Cause and i want peoples to know the truth and help me spreading this truth.I know there are many sisters in Islam,who don't know about this and uploading there pictures on net.]

This Request is not Only For Muslim Females,Its For EveryReligionbelievers,its for every Females,but due to few acts,I believe that many females will not take this matter in serious,so I request Muslim Females to Pay Special Attention on this topic.i know many muslim females will also ignore,still i hope that you can understand the importance.here i’m using few words clear JUST TO SHOW YOU THE REAL TRUTH.Forgive me if i’m wrong at any place .

Allah SWT said in Quran :

O prophet! tell thy wives and daughters and the believing women that they should cast their outer garments over their persons (when abroad): that is most convenient that they should be known (as such) and not molested: and Allah is Oft-Forgiving Most Merciful.

Does Allah says that you just hide your self Physically but display ur beauty through pictures…by sharing pictures physically or via Internet.Why you are not looking for the reason of this statement .and Reason is Women hide there beauty from Every possible ways,weather physically ,Imagination or via Internet.

My dear sisters,You say you love Allah SWT ,but when it comes to beauty or looks then you are asking Qs. and finding where it is writen to stop showing on Internet or asking Why not saying for Males.

I’m requesting you to remove your pictures becoz

• Its Allah Order to Hide your beauty.
• THE USE of your pictures are very bad.

kindly read my old Article Written on this Issue…

What is Your Rate ? Sisters BEWARE :: A serious threat for Girls !

Now,In todays date Most commonly your pics are being used

• Prostitutes / Call Girls
• to promote Websites
• For Advertisement of Adult Websites

Here are the New proofs….

I Know these girls are not prostitutes ,but they are listed…

Even Hijabi’s are also not Safe….

There are Few Websites Who Modify Nude pictures ,put your face there and then they will label it as “Muslim Prostitutes” ,Hijabi Prostitutes,Hijabi Girl available for S**…Naqabi Girl Enjoying S**…

Now the Question Do you want to get listed as Prostitutes / Call Girls ….????? Do you want that thousand of peoples Watch Your pictures and have lust full feelings ???

Few Girls thinks If the picture contain Nudity then It will be bad and create bad Effect else its ok….If you think this then let me tell you few facts.

Any Part of Your body can tease a man,if he think @ wow You have very good figure.wow You lips are very good.Congrats,you Earned SINS.

There are many websites who use your pictures to Earn Money,Yes,they upload your pics,then they display Add on those pages.Users visit to see your pics,and they earned money.A prostitute don’t uploading own pics due to security reasons.but You don’t have any problem?

Now Read few cmnts where left by users after viewing your decent pictures ========================

i’m posting here cmnts here as few female thinks that just putting face picture body covered full picture is ok to post on internet…below is cmnts on such kind of pics.

ITS CMNTS FROM VISITORS ON THE PICTURES OF GIRLS,WHO POST THERE PICTURES…ALL YOUR PICS ARE COLLECTED AND OTHER PEOPLES USE TO EARN MONEY,OR USE THEM AS PROSTITUTES.SO,WHAT CMNT PEOPLES LEAVE ON SUCH PLACE IS HERE !

I HOPE THIS CMNT WILL TELL YOU,HOW PEOPLES ARE TEASED ! I swear by Allah that these Cmnts are not Fake.

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1) Wow,what solid figure she have….

2) wow,so big B***s…

3) its will be pleasure to have her on bed.

4) oh! her back is beautifulll….

5) Hey these chicks are really great!!! Can we have them???? If yes pls mail me.

6) i like this photos but i like most the first girl who is in burkha,i love to ***K this bitch.

7) i love that kind pic i love last pic because of pic girl b**bs is to clear i love to big ***bs.

i like first pic as the face n a little toung on lips is appeilling some thing which has deep earning n the last pic as its open 2 see the deep sea at the back n deep vally in front / one can ot see this 2gether.

9) I just want to enjoy the femrich beauty in photo # 03 from the top

10) Bust line of photo no 9 and 10 is fantastic.I want their e mail Addresses.

11) bust line saree photo i friendship wanted with womens to see moves & shopping

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Now Imagine,How much those girls earning bad deeds….

Remember Once your picture is Online,you can’t stop it Earning Bad Deeds in ur account….

and My Dear Sisters In Islam,

I would like to tell you,showing beauty(Tabarruj) is GRAVEFUL PUNISHABLE SIN.

If not believing Read About Tabarruj here

Tabarruj (Display of Beauty)

What you will do,peoples whom you are showing your beauty today,will not come to see what you are recieving,will not come to protect you from grave punishment.

even your parents will also not come to save you.

THINK,WHAT YOU WILL DO ? WHO WILL SAVE YOU ?

Its YOU,Yes,only YOU,who can save urself from those punishments.

And that you can do very easily,STOP showing ur beauty to others.

REMOVE YOUR PICTURES AS SOON AS POSSIBLE,AND SEEK FORGIVENESS FROM ALLAH for the bad deeds u got without knowing about all this.

Its NOT ONLY FOR FACEBOOK,REMOVE PICS WHERE EVER YOU HAVE POSTED ON INTERNET.

Every Security to protect your images can easily break.

DON’T GET FOOL,i’m my self a Software & Web developer and I Know Very Well,How much secured it is,creating such things are my daily work,that why i’m informing you.My Own Pics,I allowd only one person to view in Facebook.after one weak it was available for Publically … How ????? By Allah i’m not lieing about this…so don’t trust security….

REMOVE YOUR PICTURES FROM UR PROFILE IN WHAT EVER WEBSITE YOU HAVE POSTED.THAT’S ONLY THE BEST OPTION.

I know many females will ignore or ask Why i’m not saying for brothers….why i’m not saying to brothers to remove there own pictures.to them I want to ask just this…

Will you say same thing to Allah ? Why he is not punishing to boys…or Will any boy come and say ,Please Allah , Forgive her ,Punish me… she uploaded pictures becoz I did..so Punish me,not her ??

I hope you will get your answer…by your self….by giving me such excuses you are creating problem for your self,not for me.There is a Hadith saying In hell females are more than males.do you want to be part of those females……and Indeed I have Message for Brothers also…

My Dear Sisters,

remember this and try to understand your importance…

Everything that Allah made valuable in the world is covered and hard to get to.Tell me Where do you find diamonds? Deep down in the ground covered and protected.

Where do you find pearls? Deep down at the bottom of the ocean covered up and protected in a beautiful shell. Where do you find gold? Way down in the mine,covered over with layers and layers of rock. You’ve got to work hard to get to them.

Your body,beauty is sacred. You’re far more precious than diamonds and pearls, and you should be covered too.

the most beloved of Allah in all His creation is the Muslim girl who wears the Hijab. hear it does not mean only cloth…hijab in everything,hide her beauty from others.

I’m requesting you so that you are protected from harm, injury and from collecting sins and get saved from fire of hell.

I hope you will Understand My request and Its Importance and will remove your pictures,its not an Order,Its a request from Brother In Islam…

What is Your Rate ? Sisters BEWARE :: A serious threat for Girls !

Assalam Alaykum,

May be,you will not like why I posted this Article in Islamic Website ? This Article was Originally published in my old professional blog.I’m Computer Technical Expert,work as a senior programmer/ developer.due to my technical skills,I have seen many secret places on Internet and have seen how the female pictures are misused,and those female don’t know.I heard many cases from News also,about Misuse of Female Pictures,I was not getting any Idea,how to stop this act,Just to inform my female contacts,i written this Article and posted on my old personal blog,and informed my conatcts and many friends.

when i started this Islamic Website and started spreading the links of this website i found that lots of sisters in Islam Uploaded pictures Online,in almost All Social Networking Website like ORKUT, FACEBOOK,My Space etc and other similar service providers,I found that sisters in Islam are showing there pictures in profiles to everyone.as i know the misuse,i real hurt me,I also found no one,not a single organisation/person is careing about this issue.it really made me sad,was not getting any Idea how to Inform them about truth.

then in Nov 2008,in Delhi same misuse of pics happen with a girl,i finally decided to put this Article in website to inform females about this threat,wid a hope that atlst Muslim Females will understand ,and I believed InshahAllah,Allah will help me and will guide sisters,

then i updated this Article with New Incidence and posted in this website.May i will not able to Inform millions of females but if i can inform 100 females and may be from 100 ,10 will understand and will remove there pics,then this will really make me happy.

If you think posting this Article in this website is wrong,then pls let me know.I will remove it.All incidence are True,can be verified from CBI Website.

What is your rate ?

How much you will take for Night ?

Unkown Person : Hello,i want to know the rate of your girl for 2 hr ?What’s her age ?

A Father : shocked ! What ?

UnKown Person : What is the rate of your girl for 2 hrs and for night ?

i guess,he will never understand what the hell is going on.Can you imagine the father’s agony?

The father of a South Delhi schoolgirl suffered from the fake profile of his daughter posted on Orkut that not only described the teenager as a ’sex teacher’, but also contained obscene photographs and her contact details.

The teenager’s family had received the first call where the caller wanted to speak to the girl. Similar calls poured in later, the police said, adding all the callers referred to Orkut.

Father of the girl lodged a complaint with the Cyber Cell of the Delhi Police’s Economic Offences after his family started receiving calls following the appearance of the fake profile.

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An air-hostess had moved a court here alleging that someone has opened an account in her name on Orkut wherein she is being described as a “sex struck woman”.

The family had a harrowing time when two strangers knocked at their door a fortnight ago and told them the girl had invited them for sex,they added. Police said a case has been registered and investigations were on.

the airhostes claimed that act has lowered her reputation in the eyes of her family members and neighbors.she also said that she have written to the national commission of the women ministry against her criminal defamation,but no actions have been taken so far. ——————————–

It was one of those normal evenings when Parmeet Kaur (name changed), a software engineer in Chennai, logged on to Orkut to unwind from work and catch up with friends.But one and a half minutes later, the evening turned shocking and miserable for her.

What she saw was a cheeky scrap and forward to a profile that had her semi-nude photo in another girl’s profile, tagged as her sister who flagged joint hints of intimate advances and indecent invites. Parmeet’s photo had been brazenly and easily tampered with.

After many weeks of tension and repeated requests to Orkut, the ID was removed. She vowed never to be vulnerable again.

Victims like Parmeet, are not one-off. They belong to the new breed of cautious Orkuters,Facebook users who either have said goodbye to networking or have got extremely careful with their communities and photographs.” ————————————————————–

FONTANA, California – A group of boys who posed as a 15-year-old girl for an Internet prank ended up police arrest a 48-year-old man who tried to meet the fictitious teenager for sex, authorities said.created a fake profile of a girl on MySpace.com — a social networking Web site — to cheer up a friend who had recently broken up with his girlfriend. ———————————

A bachelor student was arrested for creating a classmate’s profile and messages on an Online Community Called ORKUT.

When Sushma Sharma logged on orkut,she received a scrap(orkut cmnt) saying Hi from the profile that seemed to be her own. This made her wonder since she never wrote it in her own scrapbook. Out of curiousity she clicked on the profile,and to her utter dismay she was flooded with vulgar comments and cheap discriptions about her.

The profile also had her photograph and cell number.after this she started getting vulgar phone calls..then they complained to cyber cell,then the problem was solved.

Abshishek,19 a BMS Student, first denied commiting such crimes but soon accepted.he have been booked under IPC469 publishing offensive messages and sexction 67 of IT Act 2000,He Can be punished with upto 5 Years in JAIL. ——————————————————————-

NEW ISSUE with a Air Hostess

This can happen with you also,Are You ready for this ?

Your friends calls you and ask “you are available for sex as prostitute ?” Imagine your father or brother recieve a call from someone,asking rates for 2 hrs or night . ?

What you will do ? To how many people you will say that its fake Calls.

How many people will believe your words.?

I know your are decent person,not involve in such activities.but others ?

What happened ? Why you are reciving such calls ?

“There has been a spurt in Orkut,Facebook,MySpace-related obscenity cases in various parts of India like Bangalore this year. Cases of misuse on Orkut,Facebook have been reported widely.

In Bangalore, there have been eight to ten Orkut,Facebook,My Space etc -related complaints concerning pictures of young girls that have been posted on communities and groups with lewd allusions and a listing of the victims’ mobile numbers and email ids.”

The phenomenon is not restricted to any geographical regions, it is all over the country.

Who is responsible for this ? :

You and Orkut,Facebook,bigadda,yahoo, myspace, ibibo,Hi5 is responsible for this.

How they are doing this :

You created your profile on Orkut,Facebook or other community friendship website.you uploaded your real picture in profile,Albums.may be you want to show you are very friendly or just want to share your pictures with family relatives. but this was your mistake.biggest mistake.

Who is doing all this ?

Someone who knows you very well,other workers in ur office,Family enemy, AnyOne.

Just to haras you,to distroy your image or for own benefit.

Mostly Pimps,other prostitute and adult website webmasters copied your picture and using for thier bussiness to promote their bussiness and get new customers.below is the picture of advertisement where they do !

Adult Site WebMasters : Mostly the webmasters of SexSearch and AdultFriendFinders are using girls Real Name and profile picture for advertisement.

In above picture its showing that these girls are avialable for sex in NewDelhi,which is totally fake.These girls are not available,its an advertisement way to attract customers.the girl pics are collected from such websites.

Pimps or prostitutes :

They create new profile in Orkut,facebook or other websites providieng similar service.by useing ur picture with your name or different name they create profile,the profile will state that this girl is available for Sex.

Because the profile use real pictures of Girls,so customers all automatically attracted to New Profiles of Girls.

they will place your mobileno and photo on internet ,so you are reciving such calls from customers who need service.

but this action may hurt you,because may be your brother,your father,your relatives,your friends anyone can see,which will effect on ur status.because they don’t know the truth.

Mostly they use Indian and Pakistani Girls Pictures ! so,BEWARE sisters !

How to Prevent this ?

below are the few methods,regular practise of using below methods will help u to face such situations.

• Never Upload your real picture in ORKUT,FACEBOOK similar service websites,if you want to share with anyone,send them via email.

• If you access Orkut from any Internet cafe, log out properly, and then close all browser windows.

• If you find your privacy compromised in any way, don’t panic. Change your Google password as the first step.

• Use the features such as ‘Ignore User’ and ‘Report abuse’ if you ever get unsolicited invites or messages.

• Never download your picture in Cyber Cafe computer system if you are accesing from cafe,if you want to do,then after use,don’t forget to delete file(empty recyclebin after deleteing file) frm where u saved.
• If you work,then Never share your pictures with office staffs.No matter how much good friends you have .

• if you are leaving that job then make sure any staff don’t have your picture.Never download your picture in Office Computers.

LAST POINT IS VERY IMPORTANT ! GENERALLY GIRLS FORGET TO DO THIS ! I PERSONALLY HAVE SEEN IN CYBERCAFE !

KEEP THESE POINTS IN YOUR MIND,ELSE MAY BE YOU ARE THE NEXT TARGET !

I’m just trying to warn sisters in Islam about this threat,as i found lots of sisters are don’t have any Idea.so i decided to post with the latest crime this.no matter where ever you are in world,it can happen,

Will you be happy to see your pictures online as prostitute online ?